Staying Safe: How to Verify Real Ex-Members
Learn how to protect yourself from infiltration and identify genuine ex-member support while navigating your exit from WMSCOG.
Important Warning
WMSCOG has a history of creating fake websites and infiltrating ex-member communities to identify people trying to leave. Be cautious about who you trust and what information you share.
Red Flags for Potential Infiltrators
- 🚩 Asking for personal information too quickly - Real ex-members understand the need for anonymity
- 🚩 Pressure to meet in person immediately - Take your time building trust online first
- 🚩 Asking which congregation you attend - This could be used to identify you to leadership
- 🚩 Defensive about the church or trying to "correct" criticisms - Real ex-members won't defend WMSCOG
- 🚩 New accounts with no post history - Be wary of brand-new Reddit accounts reaching out
How to Protect Yourself
- Use a throwaway email or Reddit account that's not tied to your real identity
- Don't share which congregation you attend, your real name, or location details
- Look for established accounts with post history showing genuine participation in ex-member communities
- Trust your gut—if something feels off, disengage
- Start with public forums (r/WMSCOG, examiningthewmscog.com) before private DMs
Your Next Steps
Once you understand how to stay safe, you're ready to connect with genuine ex-member communities and support resources.
Related Resources
- Ex-Member Communities & Resources - Trusted communities and contact information
- Long-Term Healing After Leaving WMSCOG - Guide to ongoing recovery
- Step-by-Step Exit Plan - When you're ready to leave
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